How Vivela works.
A privacy-first system designed around consent. Every step is built so that nothing about you is shared without your explicit choice.
Core flow
Women-only signup with ID + selfie verification.
Seeker creates a private marriage application.
Applicants discover applications anonymously.
Applicants apply with a written intent message.
Seeker shortlists, accepts, or rejects.
Conversations under aliases — no photos shared.
When both consent, identities are unlocked.
Reports route to admins — action within 24h.
Reveal rules engine
hide(name) ∧ hide(photo) ∧ hide(contact)On signup, every member is anonymous by default.
reveal(A,B) ⟺ consent(A→B) ∧ consent(B→A)Identity unlocks only when both sides agree.
reveal(A,B) ⇒ revoke()? → re-hide allEither party can pull back at any time.
apply(x) ⇒ verified(x) = trueOnly ID-verified members can apply or accept.
report(t) → admin.queue → action ≤ 24hEvery report is reviewed and tracked to closure.
∀ msg m: render(m) hides identifiersChat masks names, photos, and contact info.
System diagram
┌─────────────┐ verify ┌──────────────┐
│ Member │ ───────────▶ │ Trust & ID │
└─────┬───────┘ └──────┬───────┘
│ │
create│ │approve
▼ ▼
┌─────────────┐ apply ┌─────────────┐
│ Application │ ◀────── │ Applicant │
└─────┬───────┘ └─────┬───────┘
│ shortlist │
▼ │
┌─────────────┐ anon chat ┌──┴──────────┐
│ Seeker │ ◀───────▶ │ Applicant │
└─────┬───────┘ └─────────────┘
│ mutual reveal ▲
▼
┌─────────────┐
│ Identity │ ─── reversible ─── revoke()
└─────────────┘Ready to see it in motion?
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